It is not easy to make your girl feel special always. You may feel that whatever you say seems wrong, or
that your attempts at romance are always thwarted. Or maybe you think showing up at her house with a DVD and a pack of Doritos is enough to make her melt. Here are some tips which can help you to make your girl feel special
Give genuine praise.
If you want to make your girlfriend feel special, then you can’t just say, “You’re, like, really hot.” You
have to try a little harder to show her that you really care and that you know the things that make her
feel really unique. You can complement her looks, an aspect of her personality or something about her.
Just remember not to push; if you’re praising just to make her like you more, she’ll know. Praise her looks. Say, “I love the color of your hair. It is so beautiful and unique.”
Ask questions about her life.
If you want to make your girlfriend feel really special, then this is more than just saying that the color of
her eyes resembles the sea. You need to show a real interest in who she is as a person, in what she does
on a daily basis, and in her concerns and fears. She has to feel that you see her not just as a girlfriend,
but as a human being who has her own concerns, interests and ideas. Although you should not question
her, you should ask questions naturally during the time that you are together. Here are some things you
can ask about:
● Her childhood
● Her day
● The objectives for the future
● Her friendships
● Her relationship with her family
● Her fears
● Her hobbies
● The things that make you happiest
Ask for her opinion.
You never want your girlfriend to feel like an object. You want her to feel that you really respect her
intelligence and value her opinion in many ways. Make her see that you really care about her thoughts
and opinions and that you value what she has to say when you make a big decision. Here are some
things you can ask for her opinion:
● Books
● Life Decisions
● Current political situations and problems
● A movie or show that you two saw
Be a great listener.
It is important not only to say the right things, but to listen in the right way. If all you’re doing is talking
and talking and talking and worrying about saying the right thing, chances are you’re not taking the time
to really listen to your girlfriend. You have to do visual contact, give her your full attention, and make sure she feels that you really care about what she has to say, instead of just waiting for her to stop talking for you to say that’s on your mind.
● Don’t interrupt it. Let her finish what she is saying before saying anything.
● You can shake your head or shake her hand from time to time to show that you are really
listening.
● Part of really listening is remembering what she is talking about. So, if she tells you about a fight
she had with her sister, you can ask how things are going with her least favorite sister the next time you see her.
● Don’t interrupt it. Let her finish what she is saying before saying anything.
● You can shake your head or shake her hand from time to time to show that you are really
listening.
● Part of really listening is remembering what she is talking about. So, if she tells you about a fight
she had with her sister, you can ask how things are going with her least favorite sister the next time you see her.
Always stay in touch.
If you want your girlfriend to feel special and you want to show that you care about her, then don’t go
away when you two aren’t together. Although you don’t want to suffocate her by calling her every 5
seconds, you should be in touch with her from time to time if you have been apart for a while. If you are
away for a day or two, just one phone call and a few cute messages may be enough. You can just send
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